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Episode 60: Sex After Surgery or Body Changes – Your Body Changed, Not Your Desire

Dr. Stacy Friedman, sexologist and sex coach, tackles what really happens to sex and desire when your body changes the rules on you. In this sexologist talk, intimacy coach Dr. Stacy breaks down what actually happens to desire after surgery, with mobility limits, and through hormone shifts like menopause, low testosterone, and thyroid changes — covering prostate surgery, hysterectomy, and heart procedure recovery, plus the everyday stuff that rarely gets talked about, like bad knees, bad hips, bad backs, and stiff shoulders.

In This Episode You Will Learn

  • Why desire doesn’t disappear after surgery — it goes into hiding and waits for safety
  • How to adapt intimacy around mobility limits without turning it clinical
  • What menopause, low T, and thyroid shifts actually do to desire
  • Why comfort tools are strategy, not surrender
  • How to grieve the old version of easy sex and build a hotter one

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Host Bio

Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Private Intimacy Advisor, Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project — on a mission to make midlife the hottest chapter of your sex life yet. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps men and women break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy — without apology.

She specializes in the unique desire challenges that come with midlife — hormonal shifts, erectile changes, mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel empowering, entertaining, and long overdue.

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Dr Stacy

I got into the field of Clinical Sexology because of my passion for helping people better connect and experience the best sexual intimacy with themselves or with their partner(s). drstacyfriedman.com

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