Episode Summary:
Online dating doesn’t have to feel like a soul-sucking swipe marathon — if you know how to play it smart and stay connected to yourself. In this episode, Dr. Stacy chats with Jonathan Aslay, one of America’s top midlife dating and self-love coaches, about how to navigate modern love without losing your mind (or your mojo).
From dating after divorce to decoding masculine/feminine energy and building real self-worth, Jonathan gets raw and real about what truly keeps attraction alive — both online and off. Expect humor, heart, and a few truths that’ll make you rethink how you show up for love.
💜 Topics include:
- How to find real connection in the age of swipes and DMs
- Online dating mistakes that kill chemistry fast
- Why self-love is the ultimate aphrodisiac
- Masculine vs. feminine energy: myths, labels, and what really creates heat
- Dating after divorce: rebuilding confidence and identity
- How laughter, honesty, and a little self-awareness can transform your love life
About Jonathan Aslay:
Jonathan Aslay is one of America’s leading midlife self-love and dating coaches. After facing an identity crisis following divorce — and the devastating loss of his 19-year-old son, Connor — Jonathan turned his journey into a mission to teach others how to love themselves deeply and date with confidence.
He’s the author of What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?, a guide packed with spiritual and personal growth tools for singles ready to attract better love by starting within. Jonathan’s blend of wit, wisdom, and real-world advice has made him a favorite among men and women navigating love in today’s digital world.
👉 Learn more: www.jonathonaslay.com
📘 Book: What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?
📲 Instagram: @jonathonaslay
About the Host — Dr. Stacy Friedman:
Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years in sexuality, she helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.
She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.
✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨
Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.
Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.
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