Want to try different things to spice up your relationship but get embarrassed or shy away from things that are new or unfamiliar? Maybe you want to be adventurous and have more confidence but something is keeping you from being open and free. You hold back from trying which then starts to cause boredom, frustration, or lack of intimacy because your partner is tired of doing the same thing over and over again. It could be that you just have no desire and just never really did. That is when you start feeling bad or guilty and pull away even more because you think something is wrong with you or that you look at doing things out of the box as wrong or “dirty”. You may be sexually inhibited and it may be affecting the intimacy in your relationship. Read more…